Modern Counseling Group

An Effective, Efficient Counseling Approach for Individuals & Couples




Welcome, I am Lori Cao, I am a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. If you are struggling with the following, I am glad you are here:

  • Sex and/or Porn Addiction
  • Compulsive Sexual Choices
  • Multiple Affairs
  • Deception and Gaslighting
  • Betrayal Trauma
  • Complex Trauma
  • Out of Control or Problematic Sexual Choices
  • Complicated Grief & Bereavement
  • Anxiety and/or Depression

I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and Supervisor (CSAT-S), Certified Partner Trauma Therapist and Supervisor (CPTT-S), Certified Sexologist, and certified in EMDR which is the gold standard therapy for treating trauma. I specialize in working with individuals and couples who are struggling with out of control sexual behaviors, as well as partners or spouses who have been shattered by betrayal trauma. I work with individuals and couples compassionately and confidentiality in therapy and group therapy. 

Reaching out for support is a courageous first step toward accomplishing your counseling goals. Using evidenced based therapy, I provide my clients with focused support as they learn tools and techniques that are not only effective, but also efficient in order for the client or couple to move forward toward their healing goals. 

If you are ready to take the first step toward growth and healing, I look forward to being of support. You are welcome to make an appointment.

Sexual Addiction Treatment Sobriety & Recovery

Sexual Functioning & Vitality Connection & Satisfaction

Individual Counseling & Couples Counseling

For Professionals: EMDR Consultation & Supervision

..What is Modern Counseling Group?

We provide Trauma-Focused Therapy specializing in Compulsive Sexual Behaviors, Pornography and Sexual Addiction, Betrayal Trauma, Intimacy Disorders, Sexual Health and Wellness. We support individuals, couples, and provide group counseling.

Many addictions and other problematic behaviors are due to difficulties in coping with challenging emotions, experiencing cravings and other overwhelming sensations, and difficulty managing triggers and life stressors. Modern Counseling Group therapists work compassionately with each client in order to provide a focused and effective treatment plan to address the root causes of these acting-out behaviors, as well as support the development of effective coping strategies and long term recovery. Additionally, we work with individuals struggling with complex trauma, and those who have been impacted by betrayal. Our goal is to support every individual and couple in creating a life and relationship that is healthy, balanced, connected and joyful. 

It is not easy taking the first step, however, you do not have to do this alone. If you are ready to make positive changes in your life, or heal the betrayal that is hurting you, we are ready to support you in making those changes. Contact us at


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